Never say “I love you” if you really don’t care

Never talk about feelings if they aren’t really there

Never hold my hand if you are gonna break my heart

Never say you are going to… if you don’t plan to start

Never look into my eyes if all you do is lie…

Never say hi if you really mean goodbye

If you really mean forever then say you will try

Never say forever cus forever makes me cry…

What can I say,

we have so many wonderful memories…

so many things to look back on.

I learned so much from you, gained so much.

I loved the way you made me laugh and happy,

I hated the way you made me cry,

but what I hated the most was when we said good-bye!!!

Sometimes I don’t call

Like I don’t care at all

But usually, you are the only thing

that lifts me up and makes me smile

What’s minnie without micky

What’s tigger without pooh

What’s Patrick without spongebob

What’s me without you?

PS: hope we'll always have good time here

no one & nothing can change our friendship 

we are the best & closest friends forever

你若来过，不要深究真实的我，她早就层层包裹。亲爱的，原谅我，我不再相信还有什么会永垂不朽。我是水,没有伤痕。你的甜言蜜语，让我甜得找不到北。面对最爱的人 我终究无能为力。。。

1、如果一个男人开始怠慢你，请你离开他。不懂得疼惜你的男人不要为之不舍，更不必继续付出你的柔情和爱情。
2、任何时候，不要为一个负心的男人伤心，女子更要懂得，伤心，最终伤的是自己的心。如果那个男人是无情的，你更是伤不到他的心 ，所以，收拾悲伤，好好生活。
3、永远不要无休止的围着你喜欢的那个男人转，尽管你喜欢得他快要掏心掏肺的死掉了，也还是要学着给他空间，否则，你要小心缠得 太紧勒死了他。
4、当一个男人对你说：分手吧。请不要哭泣和流泪，应该笑着说：等你说这话很久了。然后转身走掉。
5、要相信自己，善待自己，让自己的生活精彩纷呈。不要误认为是要让某个人后悔，而是为了让自己的人生更精彩。
6、每天打扮的优雅从容出门，给自己带上不同的笑容。
7、对善意欣赏你的男子回报浅浅的微笑。
8、女子25岁后，要学会保养自己的皮肤。
9、如果可以不抽烟，别抽。如果可以不喝酒，别喝。
10、再郁闷也不要去泡酒吧。一个孤独的女子手握高脚杯或者抽烟，会更添寂寞感与忧伤。
11、不要贪慕虚荣。虚荣是一剂毒药，而且会上瘾。
12、要穿高跟鞋，但是不要高的太过分。
13、要有几个死党，独自一人的时候，保证还能有死党为你端茶送水。而不是声竭力嘶的嚎叫为什么说爱你的那个人不能来陪你。
14、睁开双眼选择你的未来伴侣，如果选错了，立即分开。不要凑合过日，那样会害了两个人。
15、不要和男人动手。第一，你动不过他；第二，和你动手的男人一定是个疯子。所以，不如不动。
16、外出旅游。旅行中的心灵能更充实。
17、有喝下午茶、阅读书本、听音乐的习惯。
18、买适合自己的衣服、饰物。适合你的就是最好的，所以不必羡慕别人的行头。
19、不要接受你不喜欢的男子送的任何礼物。
20、一次只爱一个人。
21、知道自己要什么，包括你爱的男人。
22、宁缺毋滥。不要因为寂寞随手抓一个男人，这对你和他都不公平，而且太缺乏责任感。
23、对你不喜欢的追求者的示好和关心坚定的说不和拒绝。即使他说，这不关你的事。
24、认真的对待你的工作。工作也许不如爱情来的让你心跳，但至少能保证你有饭吃，有房子住，而不确定的爱情给不了这些，所以， 认真努力的工作。
25、最少拥有五个以上可供不同颜色、款式衣服搭配的包，五双以上的鞋子（拖鞋不包括。）
26、学会化精致淡雅的妆容。懂得出现在什么场合着什么服装。
27、已经错失的好男人不要去后悔，他们不属于你，于是你要睁大眼睛再找一个。
28、不要爱上已婚却还对你信誓旦旦说会抛妻弃子迎娶你的男人。如果他们真的没感情，自然会离婚，而不是整日对你说些莫名其妙的 话。
29、情人节或者生日没有人送花也无所谓，不必自己去买一束让花店送来。你可以将买花的钱买精美的礼物，送给妈妈和爸爸。
30、记住你喜欢的人的生日，包括你的家人，当然，还有自己。
31、你可以去爱一个男人，但是不要把自己的全部都赔进去。没有男人值得你用生命去讨好。你若不爱自己，怎么能让别人爱你？
32、偶尔做美女私房菜给他或者老友吃。但不要天天做，你生来不是为了某个人天天下厨房。
33、闲情时候自己煮花茶喝或者做茶点吃，放一段柔情音乐，翻阅几页好书，然后睡个懒觉，快哉。
34、疯狂的事情经历一次就好，比如翻越千山万水的去看望一个人。
35、没有时间和精力的话，不要乱表爱心养小动物，怠慢它们同样是种残忍，虽然我理解你很寂寞需要一个伴。
36、不要学人搓麻将。折磨身心的事情不要做。
37、偶尔自己唱歌给自己听，好坏不重要，心情爽朗就可以。
38、孤单的时候找好朋友聊天、逛街、吃饭。不要让孤寂淹没自己。
39、如果发短信息给你喜欢的人，他不回。不要再发。
40、万一脆弱的不行了，请选好哭泣的对象，不要随便借肩膀和胸膛。
41、出门前，记得照镜子，检查一下着装是否协调。如果时间太紧，建议睡觉前就选好第二天穿的衣服。
42、不管是和谁约会见面，约定的时间之前一定要到达。
43、万一不小心喝醉了酒，不要打电话给任何人，包括死党和他。
44、晚上早点回家，自己没有车，超过十点要打的士，或者让人来接。
45、从现在开始，聪明一点，不要问他想不想你？爱不爱你？他要想你或者爱你自然会对你说，但是从你的嘴里说出来，他会很骄傲和 不在乎你。
46、平等公正的对待你和他的爱情，脚踩很多船最终会翻掉。
47、一个人去看电影。买爆米花和可乐，笑翻天。或者，泪流满面。如果你喜欢体育，去看足球，哭死也没人管你，但是很轻松和畅快 。
48、不要24小时都想念同一个人。可以分一点给家人和朋友。
49、如果喜欢一个人，在允许的情况下，告诉对方。也许得不到答案，但至少你努力过，将来不必后悔（也许后悔的是对方，呵呵）。
50、有固定的消遣场所，比如固定的咖啡馆、书店。让那个地方的服务生认识你，这样，你会在孤单时有个温暖的去处。

今天的快乐不会延续到明天，因为快乐容易挥发！

今天的痛苦会使明天更深刻，因为痛苦容易凝固！

      Time flies, I finally can say goodbye to my 2007. Compare with 2006, my 2007 is not as wonderful as 2006, I just know my life was full of happiness and I didn’t remember anything sad last year, even fail in CET-4 couldn’t take my happiness away at that time. No tears and sadness in 2006. ^_^ What happened this year? Sadness and tears found me! My life needn’t them, I wish only happiness and smile, but obviously, it’s just a wonderful dream. I had to admit that they enrich my life, they made me grow up, they let me know what the life is clearly.

      How many happy things happened this year? Man Utd won the champion in the season of 06-07; Kimi created a miracle in Brazil and finally won the world champion; Watched F1 Shanghai GP with my own eyes thanks to Delia; Got Andy’s autograph so easily; Passed CET-4 after hard study; had a web cam chatting with Chris; found a good job though the salary was poor; enter into Shanghai Jiao tong Continuing Education School though I didn’t prepare for it very hard; etc. Wow, I have so many happy things this year, they really made me happy and smile a lot. ^^

      What’s the happiest thing? My Internet love story though it’s no longer here. I prefer to put it in the same class as happy thing instead of sad one. So far away I can hardly make him mine, so long the day he was always on my mind, dream for once so colorful! I once imagined when I wake up he was here by my side, but it never come true. I’m stronger everyday since the day he went away, I’ll keep this feeling like a souvenir. Now, Chris for me is more than a good friend and less than a love, I’d like to define it as best friend. ^^ I won’t melt away easily unless he asked, hehe Our friendship will last forever no matter what happen.

      If knowing Chris is my biggest gift in 2006 then being nice Wasi’s friend is another happy thing for me in 2007 thanks to Sisi, though I haven’t know Wasi for a long time, I believe we can be good friend. ^^ (it seems that there is a little problem between S and W, hope problem will be solved soon ) She also knew my another good friend Den. Den is a very cute guy, his Chinese is good enough, every time when I chat with him, he can make me happy and smile. As for Michael…I’m sorry to hear that he was ill, why he will get this kind of illness? That’s really a bad news though I lost touch with him for a long time because of time difference. Anyway, sincerely hope he can recover from it soon. Michael, Never give up no matter how hard it seems. Helen will support you!

      Needless to say, the saddest thing this year is my grandma passed away one month ago. To be honest, I haven’t been used to it yet. I’ll miss her once in a while. Fine, it’s a part of life, we can’t do anything but accept it, then seizing every minute in life. Stop sweating the small stuff, don’t worry about who doesn’t like me, who has more, or who is doing what. Instead, let me cherish the relationships I have with those who do love me, let me think about what God has blessed me with.

Happy new year! Helen hope you all have a blessed day!

      Long time no write something here, last week I melt away for several days to think about some questions, maybe it is so-called “escape” like Delia said. Now I’m back, I don’t wanna escape anymore, I have the courage to face anything, he didn’t do anything wrong, it’s my own problem. Now, I’m sure that our friendship will last forever.

      I enter into Jiaotong Uni, it’s really a big surprise! To be honest, I don’t think I can enter into this famous Uni because I didn’t study hard, finally, it proved that it’s not as hard as it seems. I’ll work during the daytime and go to school in the evening or at weekends.

      England team lost the vital game, I’m sad that I can’t see my dear England team next year, I don’t know what’s wrong with them. Congratulation, Russia! Den is so happy for his national team, I can understand him.

      I received a mail from my dear sister Vivienna several weeks ago, it’s a moving story, I’m too lazy to forward it to all my friends, so I put it here, you may have heard this story, but read it again, it might change how you live after today! 

      Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital room. One man was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour each afternoon to help drain the fluid from his lungs. His bed was next to the room's only window. The other man had to spend all his time flat on his back, the men talked for hours on end. They spoke of their wives and families, their homes, their jobs, their involvement in the military service, where they had been on vacation.

      Every afternoon, when the man in the bed by the window could sit up, he would pass the time by describing to his roommate all the things he could see outside the window. The man in the other bed began to live for those one hour periods where his world would be broadened and enlivened by all the activity and color of the world outside.

      The window overlooked a park with a lovely lake. Ducks and swans played on the water while children sailed their model boats. Young lovers walked arm in arm amidst flowers of every color and a fine view of the city skyline could be seen in the distance. As the man by the window described all this in exquisite details, the man on the other side of the room would close his eyes and imagine this picturesque scene. One warm afternoon, the man by the window described a parade passing by. Although the other man could not hear the band, he could see it in his mind s eye as the gentleman by the window portrayed it with descriptive words.

      Days, weeks and months passed. One morning, the day nurse arrived to bring water for their baths only to find the lifeless body of the man by the window, who had died peacefully in his sleep. She was saddened and called the hospital attendants to take the body away. As soon as it seemed appropriate, the other man asked if he could be moved next to the window. The nurse was happy to make the switch, and after making sure he was comfortable, she left him alone.

      Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up on one elbow to take his first look at the real world outside. He strained to slowly turn to look out the window beside the bed. It faced a blank wall. The man asked the nurse what could have compelled his deceased roommate who had described such wonderful things outside this window. The nurse responded that the man was blind and could not even see the wall. She said, 'Perhaps he just wanted to encourage you.'

Epilogue:
There is tremendous happiness in making others happy, despite our own situations.
If you want to feel rich, just count all the things you have that money can't buy.
'Today is a gift that is why it is called The Present.'
The origin of this letter is unknown, but it brings good luck to everyone who passes it on.

        据说现在很流行暧昧,朋友的事例太多: 你们认识很久,他天天朝九晚五嘘寒问暖的电话比你的钟表还要准时,你满心欢喜你开始心怀期待,就连做梦都会笑出来,可是他就是什么也不说,你对自己说等等再等等,直到有一天你看到他身边有了另一个身影,你震惊'不是...这是....我是.....?'在朋友眼里你们很登对,每次聚会他做你的护花使者责无旁贷,你也发现自己对他有了些些的依赖,他总是不经意的拍拍你的肩很宠爱的揉揉你的发,朋友关于你们之间无伤大雅的玩笑让你觉得很甜蜜你说你感觉幸福就在不远的地方.就在你以为一切都将水到渠成的时候睛天霹雳,他说他从没对你有过这种想法他说这是你的误会.你呆住了'误会?那么多人前的亲昵.....竟...竟然是...误会.....?' 伤心吗?难过吗?痛苦吗?只是,只是谁让你把暧昧当爱情呢？ 
       这是个暧昧横行的年代,感情出现的第三个种类,比友情深比爱情浅游走于二者的边缘这就是暧昧,是什么时候开始本应是明明朗朗的爱情成了一场麓战,谁先动心谁就满盘皆输万劫不复.是谁把简单复杂化  其实说穿了 暧昧,是可以推脱责任的游戏,没有承诺就无需负责; 暧昧,是勇敢者的游戏,无畏的人才能在角逐中进退自如; 如果你没有铁石铸就的心肠做软胃甲,那么你就别拿暧昧当爱情... 
暧昧是比好朋友再亲一点，但比情人远一点。 
暧昧是你会常常在QQ等他在线。 当他几天没有在线，你就会有些牵挂。 
暧昧是你会不时去他的BLOG看看有没有更新； 而且你会留意字里行间，他对你有没有什么暗示。
暧昧是有感觉，然而，这种感觉不足以叫你们切切实实地发展一段正式的关系。 
暧昧是明白人生有太多的无奈，现实有太多的限制。 你知道没有可能，但又舍不得放手。
暧昧是有进一步的冲动，却没有进一步的勇气。 
暧昧是他不是你的情人，但似乎他比你的情人更关心你和了解你。
暧昧是你会编一条围巾给他，但大家从没有开始过。
暧昧是虽然他不是你的情人，但他却会对你说：你对我是十分重要的。 
暧昧是你感冒时有一个会在晚上打电话来，特意提醒你服药，叫你盖好被子早点睡的普通朋友。 
暧昧是每当他提及他的另一半时，你会万箭穿心。 
暧昧是为了逃避背叛的罪恶感。 
暧昧是甜津津又同时酸溜溜的。往往从未开始，已叫人不安，患得患失。
暧昧是别人以为你们在搞地下情时，你会沾沾自喜。 
暧昧是别人问你们是否恋爱中，你张口结舌。                     
暧昧是常常挣扎表不表白。你怕表白之后，你既得不到一个情人，却又失去了一个知心好友。 
暧昧是见到他，你会心跳。见不到他时，你会挂念他。 
暧昧是两个人都会互相猜想。他是不是已经暗示了什么？我是不是自作多情？ 
暧昧是每天大家都会聊QQ、MSN，会互传手机短讯，无规律地偶然约会。 
暧昧是除了情人节之外，其它的节日，大家都交换礼物。 
暧昧是你很想多走一步，但又怕会吓怕了他。你会很小心流露自己的感情。 
暧昧是两个人没有承诺过什么。但虽然如此，你愿意付出的，比有承诺的情侣更多。没有责任，但你却很渴望 去承担，不问回报。 
暧昧是一扇门，你可以停留在门外，也可以踏进房子里面。然后你不可以停留在门下面。门--永远不是终点站。 
       暧昧中我们的爱情在无奈和渴望中徘徊。真的是落花有意，流水无情么？真的是彼此的感情不足以上升到神圣爱情的位置么？真的是爱情只是人们杜撰出来的神话么？这个年代，我喜欢的不喜欢我，喜欢我的我不喜欢，于是，继续着时空的荒唐，情感的暧昧。渴望着爱情的来临，无奈于暧昧的蛊惑。讨厌暧昧,却在无意中继续着暧昧…我们暧昧，我们却不属于对方…